My wife finally got a job and the question is should she help with the bills?

My wife is from Venezuela and we have moved to Hungary she has not had a job for the last 2 and half years. She and I have a son and we would all like to move to Spain. I have been working and payinf for all the bills leaving me broke by broke meaning no spending money for me.I asked her since she finally got a job can she help out with some of the bills so I can have some spending money her replay was she is saving money for the move to Spain.She does save some money for the trip this is true, but she still has personal money to spend and I asked her pay some bills so i have some spending money as well. her response I am the man I brought her to Europe and if I want her to stay I have to take care of all the bills..Is this correct cause I feel like I am being used?